Sometimes, home isn't just a place, it's a person.

I never understood the concept that home could be a person, until I met my person.
my person asked me to be his girlfriend, and obviously I didn't say no. I've had past relationships, all of which were terrible and with people who treated me horribly. However, there was never a doubt in my mind that he would hurt me. I found myself falling very hard and very fast for him, and I was absolutely fine with that.
My person was the dream guy i'd always hoped and wished for- tall, handsome, funny, loyal, and complimented me in a way I never thought a person could.
He changed me for the better. All of my bad habits quickly turned into good ones, and I know that I have him to thank for that. He saw things in me that I didn't see in myself, and made me feel loved every second of every day.
We went through some pretty tough times during few months, and he was there for me through it all.I never felt alone whenever I had a problem or a bad day. He kept me calm even though he was worried himself. He held my hand when I wasn't feeling well, and did his best to make things easier for me whenever he could. Whenever something good happened, he was the person I would go to. If he ever made me upset, he would automatically come by to make things better. There was never a time that I couldn't trust him, whether it be with secrets or personal things within our relationship.
Naturally, all couples fight and have the "what if" moments in their relationships, but this was different. We are two totally opposite people- i'm outgoing, while he's quiet and reserved. We have slightly different morals, and those differences definitely reflect and show through in our relationship. We've treated each other badly sometimes, yet we consistently find ways to better ourselves.
Before my person, I had a very different perception of what love was. I was always the type of person to need constant attention and affection, and I didn't see that as a bad thing. However, with him, I don't need to be reminded every five minutes how he feels about me. I know that there is a mutual love between us, and just little "good morning" or "bed love you" texts are more than enough to get me through the day.
I know i'm not a perfect person, and he isn't perfect either. But, I know that we're perfectfor each other. People don't really understand our relationship and why we keep fighting for each other even when things go bad, but we have a bond that only we can understand and share. That's what I mean when I say that home is a person. Wherever he is, I know I want to wind up. The most calming thing to me, and the thing that can suddenly make any problem of mine go away is just cuddling up next to him, and hearing his heart beat, or his breathing change when we share little kisses. The person I fell in love with doesn't speed my heart rate up or make me anxious- he calms me down in a way that I didn't think I could be calmed down. Of course I get butterflies when we're together- what girl doesn't when they are with the love of their life? To me, my boyfriend is the most handsome person i've ever seen, and I continually realize how blessed I am to have him as my own and I pray every day to be able to share the rest of my years out with him.

~Yudha Aris Setiawan

Pesen buat Yudha

Baca baik2 ya.. Soalny ini tu kesalahan yg paling fatal dlm hubungan, versi aku hehe

1. Km jangan genit sm org lain, soalny km ud punya aku.
Aku g mau km manis2 & romantis2an ama cewe selain aku!
Ini bukan soal ngekang, sayang. Tapi, menghargai pasangan.
km harus bisa jaga kedekatanmu ama cewe lain.
Km hrs jaga hati dan perasaan orang yang sayang ama km dalam hubungan.

2. Kalo km genit ama cewe lain, aku berani pastiin hubungan kita pelan2 tersingkir.
Lama2 aku dalam hidupmu terasing. Kemudian km pindah hati dan berubah perasaan.

3. Sekalipun km masih romantis sama aku.
Tetapi kalau km suka manis dengan orang lain, itu ttp bikin perasaan terluka.
Karena g ada ceritanya orang yang cinta, rela pasangannya bagi rasa hangat ama org lain. Sekalipun cuma kata2

4. Meskipun km tetap sayang sama aku.
Tapi, km suka romantis ke selain aku, ttp aja aku berkobar rasa cemburu.
Soalny, ga ada ceritanya orang yang sayang, mau diduain dalam setiap bentuk perhatiannya dalam hubungan.

5. Bukan soal aku mengekang kamu dalam hubungan.
Tapi, kalo km suka genit2an.. Itu artinya ga menghargai pasangan.
Kalau kamu senang goda2, ini sama aj kaya ngobral cinta secara murahan

6. Klo km selingkuh, aku g akan prnh peduli sm mu lagi. Soalny,  hubungan itu harus sama2  setia dan saling menjaga hati. Kalau kamu main sm orang lain di belakang, berarti memang g pantes buat diprtahanin

7. Km tau? Klo ud ad perusak hubungan, km dan aku bakal berantakan. G akan ad lagi saling memahami dan mengerti, klo ada masalah pasti langsung saling nyalahin. Km yang biasanya suka ngalah, skr gakan lagi tabah. Aku yang biasanya percaya, jd mudah curiga. Trs kita jg jd sering berantem, seolah-olah tinggal nunggu waktu bua bubar aj

This.. Alasan aku knp aku gasuka org yg selingkuh2. Aku mending 2 the point, kalo emg bosen ya tinggal bilang, aku bakal kasi spare time buat km bebas. Gausa selingkuh2 sgl. Aku plg gasuka.

Dear Yudha,

Dear Yudha,
When you came into my life,I didn’t have any confidence to start a relationship with you. Day by day I started to develop a deeper feelings and I enjoy being around you. We spent a month of knowing each other’s attitude.

I thought you were going to dump me because of my crazy side but you didn’t. I’m amazed and I know that I can depend on you. Having you in my life is a blessing. You can be a clingy baby and also a man who knows how to handle problems.

Despite the attitude i gave you when I miss you and question why I can’t see you like any other couples. You will stay calm and comfort me till I feel better. You didn’t shut me out when I annoy you. Ldr sucks, by the way...
But, I'm glad to through it with you

You try your best to be there with me when I need you although i know you have a minor problem with your time management. Not to mention the nights you spend talking to me because I want you to be around. I do admit that I get jealous when you “over spent” your time with friends. Hehe sorry..

I feel that way because I can’t see you as much as other people do. I know it’s something that I clearly should understand. Yudha never complained tho, you just comfort and remind me to think of something positive. I don’t have many friends as much as he does

That’s the reason why I spend a lil bit extra time with my aduy since we can only talk through facetime or texts. He’s a simple person and I’m the complicated one but he managed to handle me in every possible way. You confronts every problem we had in the best way

Thank you for how you never stops making me the happiest girl alive. As you are the first one ever (i hope last too) to ever make me feel this way. Hehe...
Thank you Yudha for being mine and I hope the future holds the best for us. I respect you as my partner and I truly love you inside and also outside. Forever together with my only one❤️

I love u,
Cinthya..